You're finding yourself in the same situation. Blame this and that instead of your mental habitat. Looking right in front of you, why isn't life easy. Won't throw you a bone while your sights a stone throw away. Realizing in hindsight that you were not guiding yourself properly. It's a monopoly against you, looking for the next win. When your mindset is consistent with the masses, choices run thin. Look ahead, and respect the choices your decision making creates for you. Just know where you want to be. Even if it is something you can't see.
"Set your sites higher than your eyes can see."