It's hard, no matter the draw of the card. They are, however, constantly your responsibility to teach which is no small feat. Bow down to your ego or they will follow you into the depths of your mistakes. Protect their mind from the world's haste and replace it with the acquired taste of success. If you don't, their mind will remain hollow and the world they will follow.
"Your kids, as I have said previously, follow your actions. It's hard as an adult to relate to your children. Let your ego of being in charge go and teach instead of preach. Teach them to think for themselves. To think before acting, and to stand their ground. You do that by having self control around them."